Friday, December 13, 2019

Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens

Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens
Our last book of the year 2019 !
Blog written by Marty

Characters

Kya (Catherine Danielle Clark). The Marsh Girl
Tate (primary romantic interest)
Chase (considered the local hero)
Ma (mother)
Jodie (one of the brothers)
Pa (father)
Jumpin (local shop attendant and friend)
Mabel (his wife)

The book is a unique account of a young girl deserted by her entire family including her mother. Kya the main character cannot comprehend how a mother can leave a child ( even animals don't leave their young to fend for themselves). "this little piggy stayed home"

A truly hearty story of a small child left to care for herself (feed,cook,earn wash etc). With the help of her friend she learns to read and she educates herself through her incredible knowledge of the wild life and her affinity with the nature of the district.

The early part gives some description of her relationship with Pa before he leaves her totally isolated.

Most felt the book was well structured and neatly put together..some found the flashbacks were sometimes confusing when referring to the murder and subsequent trial. Part narrated in the 50s and story in the 60's.
The introduction of "who done it?" if it was a murder added intrigue to the story even though no attempt was made to describe how Chase may have met his death. "It was a mystery wrapped in glorious lyrical prose".

Was the verdict a surprise considering the village folk's attitude was prejudiced against Kya (the marsh girl).
When Tate found the shell necklace (that would have been the primary exhibit). After Kya's death did one feel perhaps justice was served?
"Was it sweet revenge?"

The majority of our book club (those that read the book) thoroughly enjoyed "Where the Crawdads Sings".
The language and description was delightful.
It was compelling reading even if at times not totally believable.
But it is a NOVEL (Fiction)

"Most of what she knew, she'd learned from the wild. Nature had nurtured, tutored and protected her when no one else would. If consequences resulted from her behaving differently, then they too were functions of life's fundamental core."

The author Delia Owens obviously has immense botanical and biological knowledge of the wild life in that marsh area.

I personally loved the quaint romantic courting touch of Tate leaving a feather for Kya

Crawdads refers to a type of crayfish in that area.


Score 8.5.


Wishing everyone a very Happy Holiday season and all the best for 2020!

Thursday, November 28, 2019

Boy Swallows Universe by Trent Dalton

Boy Swallows Universe by Trent Dalton
Book chosen by Melissa

Friday, October 25, 2019

When Breath Becomes Air by P Kalanithi

When Breath Becomes Air by P Kalanithi
Book chosen by Sally

Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Normal People by Sally Rooney

Normal People by Sally Rooney
Book chosen by Robyn


Sharon's observations :
I started to listen to this book on Audible which was a good thing because I am not sure I would have persevered !  Somehow the narration made the young people seem more sympathetic with the Irish accent.

The way the book is written is sometimes confusing as the dialogue is sometimes a dialogue and sometimes not...

Th main character of Marianne is really sad.  I find it a surprise that Connell is the one to seek professional help after Rob’s suicide while Marianne is really the one who needs help.  What a family !!

I was surprised at the ending but maybe shouldn’t have been because Marianne will never believe she deserves the happiness she has found with Connell. 


I rate this novel 6/10.  It is a disturbing read about damaged young people. Nothing “normal” at all !

Thursday, July 25, 2019

Educated by Tara Westover

Educated by Tara Westover
Book chosen by Megan

Lee's comments :
What to say about Educated, firstly I didn’t like it, even as a true story, autobiography, memoir what ever, all of the characters including the author were so unappealing and I couldn’t relate to any of them, obviously because I am not a Mormon nor am I religious or have had a religious upbringing. I can’t abide fundamentalism in any religion and the people that are brainwashed by it. I found Tara’s story horrific and the dangers her stupid parents exposed her to were just unbelievable. Her mother at first seemed to be protective even though she was under the spell of the demonic father, but later completely sides with his crazy fanaticism and rejects her daughter and I assume her other two sons who have sought out an education while favouring a psychopathic monster in Shawn. The level of family abuse is shocking and the back woods mentality of these fundamentalist Mormons seems so stereotypical of the worst of red neck Americans. End of Days and all that. Another cult involving innocent family members. I am glad I was raised by cynical parents.

I found it so hard to understand and accept that Tara couldn’t/wouldn’t leave the family after all her study and discovering a new life in Cambridge and Harvard. Is this the depth of her brainwashing? Abusers have such a strong hold over their victims, whether it be in an abusive marriage or in a parent-child relationship and the conflict the victims feel in their desire for reconciliation in spite of knowing the reasons they should leave. We see this in so many recent books we have read, from The Girl on a Train, and Unbreakable, to Big Little Lies. It was challenging to accept that she could become so intellectual and committed to research in such a short space of time and still yearn for her mad family. Even though she finally walks away from them. And could she find her answers in 19th century philosophers?

In spite of all this I kept on reading, wondering in a somewhat sadistic way, what horrific act either Shawn or the father would inflict on Tara next. And what a clever girl she was, good at singing; did she play the piano too, can’t remember; the star of the local theatre; brilliant at maths and algebra and even taught herself calculus, all in the shadow of Bucks Peak. All a bit hard to believe. And her mother the homeopath, finally makes a mint from her herbal remedies! And the badly burnt disfigured father can continue building barns and whatever with his claw hands. Again I had to really stretch the limits of my imagination. Ever since reading The Power of One I really dislike this type of ‘made good’ self admiring memoir. By writing, is this the catharsis the author seeks. Sure Tara has her moments, in fact months, of self doubt and finally has a nervous breakdown complete with panic attacks.
For me the opening description of the mountain was the most rewarding part of the book. And the most poignant line was that of the seven siblings, three had achieved academic success and four were basically uneducated. And all of this happening in the last two decades. But I guess that is Trump’s America.
A rating: 6 for the writing, 5 for the narrative.

Friday, June 21, 2019

Tinman by Sarah Winman

Tinman by Sarah Winman
Book chosen by Sarah

Friday, May 3, 2019

Hillbilly Elegy by JD Vance

Hillbilly Elegy by J D Vance
Book chosen by Meredith

Sharon's comments :
I read this book quite fast as I was conscious of the book group meeting coming up.  It is an easy read and the memoir does paint a picture of what growing up in a poor white lower working class in America is like.

I think he was incredibly lucky in making a different future for himself.  Being a Marine was the first step in instilling discipline and self confidence in him.  This actually says a lot about the opportunities the army can offer.  He probably wouldn’t have gotten into Yale Law without that experience. He was also very lucky to have his Yale professor as his mentor.  That kind of guidance often makes all the difference.

I think his story reaffirms my belief that education is the greatest equalizer.  There are some comments on Goodreads that perhaps JD is looking down on blue collar workers.  I didn’t get that feeling.  I just think he appreciates his lucky break to get into one of the top law schools.

Interesting comments he had on President Obama and his wife Michelle.

Rating 6/10


Our group's general comments :

Well worth a read , Glass Castle was more wow , 7.5 - educational about over generalisation of white stereotypes, interesting 6/10, 7.5/10, Obama statement sums up the book , enjoyed it till Mamaw died , she provided what he needed to live his life even though her own life is flawed. Didn’t like it - didn’t like any of the characters. Reminded me of The Power of One. Didn’t particularly like it.

Friday, April 12, 2019

To the Lighthouse

To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf

Blog by Lee

I thought that by choosing To The Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf for my book club evening it would present a challenge to the group but I didn’t realise how much of a challenge it it would turn out to be.  Disappointingly only two of us had read it and Megan was halfway through.  Marty listened to an audio book version which we agreed in no way did justice to the writing, and as for those few others who attended, no one else had read it but most enjoyed the discussion with Melissa beamed in from Watson’s Bay by FaceTime.  A techno first for our book club and done very successfully.

Others enjoyed the discussion and Marty commented that she thought that the best part was the title.  I myself thoroughly enjoyed the book as a brilliant piece of stream of consciousness writing and found myself going back to reread passages and then having finished the book starting all over again and continuing to delight in Woolf’s writing and the thoughts and observations of her characters.  It is a book which reflects the influences and personages of Woolf’s life and family and deserves to be read with a reference to her biography to fully appreciate her characters.  It could almost be seen as a book without a narrative, it is the characters themselves that form the story not what happens, although some characters do eventually realise their trip to the lighthouse many years later.

To The Lighthouse has been listed as one of the one hundred greatest books of 20th century English literature and I would tend to agree.  An early feminist work without the social criticism of later feminist works, but a gradual recognition of the poverty and appalling misogyny of male attitudes to women in society and academia which is still so relevant today.

From Litcharts.com:

Stream of consciousness is a style or technique of writing that tries to capture the natural flow of a character's extended thought process, often by incorporating sensory impressions, incomplete ideas, unusual syntax, and rough grammar.
Some additional key details about stream of consciousness:
Stream of consciousness writing is associated with the early 20th-century Modernist movement.
The term “stream of consciousness” originated in psychology before literary critics began using it to describe a narrative style that depicts how people think.
Stream of consciousness is used primarily in fiction and poetry, but the term has also been used to describe plays and films that attempt to visually represent a character's thoughts.
Understanding Stream of Consciousness
Stream of consciousness writing allows readers to “listen in” on a character's thoughts. The technique often involves the use of language in unconventional ways in an attempt to replicate the complicated pathways that thoughts take as they unfold and move through the mind. In short, it's the use of language to mimic the "streaming" nature of "conscious" thought (thus "stream of consciousness"). Stream of consciousness can be written in first person as well as the third person.

What Makes Stream of Consciousness Different?
Traditional prose writing is highly linear—one thing or idea follows after another in a more or less logical sequence, as in a line. Stream of consciousness is often non-linear in a few key ways that define the style: it makes use of unusual syntax and grammar, associative leaps, repetition, and plot structure.

Stream of consciousness also makes use of associative thought. In this style of writing, writers transition between ideas using loose connections that are often based on a character's personal experiences and memories. The idea is that this technique helps writers convey the experience of human thought more accurately than they could by using  a series of ideas connected with clear, logical transitions. Associative thought can seem "random" as it leaps from one thing to the next, with the help of only ambiguous or seemingly nonexistent connections, even as it can also feel similar to the actual random leaps that are a part of people's everyday thoughts.
As an example, characters' thoughts are often presented to the reader in response to sensory impressions—fragmented observations describing what the character sees, hears, smells, feels, tastes, and so on.

From Melissa:

I have had a copy of this book on my shelf for many, many years, with a view to reading it. Of course I was attracted to the title, let alone the famed history of Woolf’s work, which I had never read. And I think I may have tried to dip in a couple of times in the past but it hadn’t held my attention or wasn’t right for the time. So when you set it for bookclub I was thrilled as I knew I would finally embrace the challenge.

When I commenced the book I was initially disappointed. I wondered how I could possibly wade through what felt like a thick swamp of density to be able to see anything beneath the murky waters. I pushed on, with the same resistance that water provides. It was the extraordinary the dinner party scene, Chapter 17, that suddenly provided an incredible vision of clarity for me. It was not unlike the experience of staring at a 3d picture which, after being bewildered for some time at the scrambled puzzle of it all, it suddenly becomes brilliantly comprehensible. Somehow then, I entered Woolfe’s world - and mind - and from thereon, thoroughly enjoyed and fully appreciated the rest of the journey.

I would personally describe the work as ‘tediously brilliant’. And Woolf as a tortured genius - and true feminist long before her time. Impossible to move through life with such an astute hyper-awareness of what everyone is thinking and feeling - simultaneously - (perfectly depicted the dinner party scene - which is like a camera moving, in slow motion, around the table with insight into everyone's secret perspective - especially the women's) and to live peacefully with that degree of sensitivity. It’s no wonder she put rocks in her pockets. Poor thing. So glad she was at least able to express it - express the way people experience simultaneous thought and feeling - and so cleverly - like no-one else I’ve ever read.

Ever so thankful to her (and you Lee) for the opportunity to read this work. Quite extraordinary. The middle part which depicts the house from the wind’s perspective (no less) is so cleverly experimental - and would be extremely difficult to make work - yet she did.

Some lines and passages are so extraordinary I had to reread them to believe them - like this poetic and metaphorical passage which seems to underline the whole essence of the book - from Ch 9 The Lighthouse - pg 204
[The sea without a stain on it, thought Lily Briscoe, still standing and looking out over the bay. The sea is stretched like silk across the bay. Distance had an extraordinary power; they had been swallowed up in it, she felt, they were gone for ever, they had become part of the nature of things. It was so calm; it was so quiet. The steamer itself had vanished but the great scroll of smoke still hung in the air and drooped like a flag mournfully in valediction.]

Overall, the book seems filled with the weight of melancholy, no heavier than that - of grief - yes - the drowning depths of grief. A ghost story - in the true and aching sense of the word ghost. There is such an emptiness in the sense of the missing person/s, the lost opportunities (to go to the lighthouse when they should’ve, could’ve…) and the sorrow of all things lonesome, unrealised, unrealisable, concluded or unfulfilled.

Thank you Lee, reading this bought a richness to my literary knowledge and experience and I’m so pleased it was you who inspired me to embrace this book.
I wish I could be there to celebrate this with you tonight.

Melissa
xo


Ps. The Penguin version has exceptionally helpful introductory notes and footnotes which I highly recommend. They were almost as interesting as the book, helping to explain the brackets and the simultaneous nature of the work and the process and purpose of its creation.

Our next meeting is on May 2 at Meredith's and our book choice is Hillbilly Elegy by JD Vance.

Friday, March 8, 2019

God Help the Child

God Help The Child by Toni Morrison

Blog by Sharon

I've been meaning to choose one of Toni Morrison's work for a while now for the book club and am glad I finally decided on this one.  With the current news of the many child abuse cases coming to court and the perpetrators finally answerable, this is a timely choice.

Some of Toni Morrison quotes from the book :
"What you do to children matters. And they might never forget".
"You are about to find out what it takes, how the world is, how it works and how it changes when you are a parent.  Good luck and God help the child".

In an interview with Stephen Colbert, Morrison said : " There is no such thing as race...Racism is a construct, a social construct. And it has its benefits.  Money can be made off of it. "  The darkness of Bride's skin has certainly changed from being the cause of Sweetness repugnant attitude to her child to something that Bride used to her advantage later in life.

Our ratings for the book were 9,8,7,9,7,9,9 and we described it as disturbing, enlightening and hopeful ending, may the cycle not continue !

Our next meeting is on April 11 at Lee's and our choice is To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf.

Thursday, February 7, 2019

An Ordinary Day

Any Ordinary Day by Leigh Sales

Blog collated by Sharon

This is our first book choice for 2019 and the meeting was hosted by Jane.

Jane's comments :
The school's reaction to the death in the family is  insightful.  People generally avoid the person with the tragedy.  Acknowledging someone's difficult and tragic event is not that common but it should be done.  The most touching story was the child who was a schizophrenic who killed the dad.

Sally :
Really valuable from the priest and detective about how to speak to people.  Just say simple things and not worry about the right things to say.  Nice story of resilience.

Lee :
Leigh's voice is just how she speaks on 7:30 Report.  A book I felt I could trust.  The people who tell the stories are trusting Leigh to tell them truthfully.  They are so brave to talk about their stories.  Beautiful book.

Melissa :
Religious theme was interesting because you feel Leigh is wrestling with that herself. In the end, kindness.  Moved by the surfing incident.  No quota to traumas.  For those who can change they actually manage to go onto a better life.  Why me ? - well why not me ? The new normal as opposed to moving on or closure.

Marty :
The media is very intrusive when they approach trauma victims' families.  Helps personal recovery if they get a chance to tell what really happened.  It's free as opposed to talking to a therapist.  There are incidents where I felt she was pushy and insensitive.  Maybe that's what drove the writing of the book.

Meredith :
The appalling state of journalism.  Leigh Sales' interview tactic is actually annoying. The book is quite good but it's not been an entirely honest book because she wasn't happy to reveal too much about herself.  It's like a very long essay.  Kind of repetitive story after story.  It's highlighting the randomness of life. The book is too long.

We described the book as : a worthwhile read, unexpectedly more than interesting, thought provoking and reassuring, insightful.  A couple of 9.5 ratings.

Our next book is God Help the Child by Toni Morrison and the meeting will be at Sharon's on March 7th.